Meet me, you will get Love. If you don’t give me the reason for love, I will find and give back to you. We get carried away with thoughts that drive away from the love. ~ Tejas Patel
The Art of Giving and Giving Back: Cultivating Unconditional Love
When we think about love, we often focus on receiving it rather than giving it. The quote above reminds us that true love is a two-way street, and that by giving without expectation, we open ourselves up to receiving it in return. But what does this mean, and how can we cultivate this kind of love in our lives?
Give Without Expectation
The first step in giving and giving back is to give without expectation. When we give with the expectation of receiving something in return, we’re not truly giving – we’re trading. This kind of transactional love is shallow and fleeting, and can lead to feelings of resentment and disappointment when our expectations aren’t met. Instead, focus on giving because it feels good, because it brings joy and fulfillment, and because it’s a natural expression of who you are.
Find the Reason for Love
When we give without expectation, we need to find the reason for our love. Why do we love someone or something? What is it about them that resonates with us? When we understand the reason for our love, we can give from a place of authenticity and sincerity. This kind of love is rooted in our values, passions, and desires, rather than external circumstances or expectations.
Give Back
When we give without expectation and find the reason for our love, we naturally want to give back. We want to reciprocate the love and kindness that’s been given to us, and to show appreciation for the people and things that bring joy and fulfillment into our lives. Giving back doesn’t have to be grand or dramatic – it can be as simple as writing a thank-you note, making a phone call, or doing a small favor for someone.
Get Carried Away with Thoughts
Finally, when we’re caught up in our thoughts and worries, it’s easy to lose sight of what’s truly important. We get caught up in our own stories and dramas, and forget to appreciate the beauty and wonder of the present moment. When we’re carried away with thoughts, we’re not fully present in our relationships, and we’re not able to give and receive love in the way that’s possible.
By embracing the art of giving and giving back, we can cultivate unconditional love that brings joy, fulfillment, and connection into our lives. By giving without expectation, finding the reason for our love, giving back, and staying present in the moment, we can experience the depth and richness of love that’s available to us.
